My Wife Michelle

Back in the days of Michelle working for Mobile Garage she used to have this uniform of high heels, tights and skirt with this green top. Yes the top was horrible but those legs looked divine and I wanted them.

I used to go out with her blokes sister, yet I got on better with Michelle and she used to do my laundry for me, I kept my smalls out of the mix lol. She also used to give me lifts home and I always wondered what she would do if my hand slipped across and touched her leg...but I never had the courage to do it.

Will kill me when she sees this!

One night she was out and she was in the nightclub i was working, when a fight broke out and I intervened  and threw out people responsible or so I thought...Michelle came bounding over and told me I had chucked her date out ...Ooops...(not) ;)

I seemed to have this unusual effect on Michelle as every time she saw me, she would either fall over or she would slip down stairs etc etc. She was always falling for me :)

I remember one night I managed to get her to come up for a coffee after she dropped me off and we had a laugh, I asked her if she wanted to stop the night and she said "YES", I was so gob smacked that I didn't know what to say or how to react that it led to an awkward silence.
Michelle then said that she best be off as she had left the windows open, Damn it why didn't I do something, why didn't she make a move?....oh well maybe next time!

Several weeks later I had a chance to redeem myself as Michelle was out with a work do and I was working in this pub, where she had ventured in to partake in several alcoholic beverages. We got talking and she invited me back to her place when I finished work. I took her up on the offer and went to her house after my shift, She invited me, offered me a cold drink and before i could even get it to my mouth she said "Are you coming to bed then, or what?"

Being the Gentleman I am, I accepted her offer and we had a good night...sleep, I just cuddled her and we fall asleep. When I awoke in the morning, Michelle wasn't there and I could hear talking downstairs, I reached for my clothes and they wasn't there!!!
I thought this is payback for not doing anything with her in bed lol, That she is holding me hostage...it turned out she decided to let me sleep in and had put my clothes in the washer :)

Michelle & I got Married in 2002, we had a big church wedding at St Andrews in Kirkella. It was an awesome day and will never be forgot. She looked drop dead gorgeous in that dress, and even more sexier when I lifted the Vail.

Sexy Wife :)

We still haven't had a proper Honeymoon yet with just the 2 of us, but with the kids we went to North Wales, Prestatyn for the weekend in a caravan. This continued to be our holiday venue for a good few yrs...so much to see and do every time we went.

We have always lived in a house with a 2 in it, does this mean something. The name Newark always pops up, does this mean something? Who knows but it is doing our head in lol.

Our life together has been very good, I am still in love with Michelle, I love spending time with her and having fun with her. We are in a bit of a financial situation at the moment but I feel this has now made us stronger as we know we can't just use plastic to get ourselves what we want and when we want it...although it is missed when booking our London breaks away.

*****UPDATE****

Michelle and myself have now been together for 20 years this year, apart from my hiccup, it has been a tremendous 20 years with lots of great memories and special moments.
We sorted out our financial problems last year and this year we can soon start treating ourselves again and getting our trips out more than we have.

Michelle is still having her health issues with her shoulders, spine and now right leg and knee. Drs said that she has osteoarthritis in the spine, which seems to be spreading. It does her head in but she is a fighter and carries on the best she can. She continues to work at the hotel, only good thing now is she is a supervisor so her job is a little less demanding on her body.

We have a trip planned to Malaga in May this year seeing as its our special Anniversary, the time cannot come quick enough, Next year weve got our 15th Wedding Anniversary and Michelle's 50th Birthday to come, Your getting old now Michelle but yet you still look and are very sexy in my eyes and I wouldn't trade you in for the world.

Our Home

We are currently residing in a 3 bed house with a huge rear garden, which was very overgrown. It was full of trees and bramble bushes with stalks approx 3 inches thick...was like a jungle.

Taken after we ripped the trees and bramble bushes out

The house was barebones so we knew we had work to do. So we cracked on and in no time the place was painted, carpeted, furniture moved in and we was living here.

We then started on the garden, firstly just tidying it up and clearing the rubbish out. Then we started to dig the weeds up and create borders...the ground was like concrete everywhere as it hadn't been worked on in over 10yrs.

Fences were erected and gates put up, all painted rich cedar and that alone made a massive improvement to the garden.

Fenced at last

Veg Patch...Growing nicely :)

Progression shot

Vegies nearly rdy..yum yum

We decided on creating our own vegie patch...never done it before.
Potatoes
Carrots
Lettuce
Turnips
Radish
Butternut Squash
Red Onion
Leeks
Garlic
Tomato's
Curly Kale
Sprouts
Brocoli

Only mistake we made is that on most things we have sowed them to close, but we know better for next year...Next year will be better as we will have learned from our mistakes and produce a much better harvest.

We are currently working on a pond, boy did that take some wiring up but it is looking good and next week we can add some fish to it...only goldfish tho :(

Today we have got 2 tonnes of topsoil arriving and that is for the pond area so we can plant some alpine plants and create a rockery.

We have still got to put in a wishing well in the centre of the garden as a remembrance for Michelle Mum Iris, who sadly passed away on 21 July 2011... R.I.P

Our plan for next year is to get a shed and get a section paved down the bottom of the garden, Get a Gazebo up and actually have some BBQ's and enjoy the garden.

We also have to concentrate on getting the front garden sorted, gonna keep it simple and shingle it with a design in the middle of each section.

The Family

Well here we are again, Welcome once again to my blog :)


Clark is the eldest of the bunch, currently 24 and he is also the tallest 'high tower' should be his nickname as he is 6ft 5. He is currently a groundsman for some construction company and in his spare time he is a boxer. Clark had his first fight on 28th July 2011 and it resulted in a unanimous win..."Well done son" you made us all proud.

Clark is my step son, yet I treat him as my own and he has told me on several occasions he considers me as his dad *Eyes Swelling Up*. He is a good kid and I would like to think I have taught him a thing or two.

I have included round 3 of his fight :) ***Update, blogger not accepting video so had to be removed***

Chantelle is 2nd eldest she is 19, She is a human fog horn and big mouth...not sure she has grasped the concept of talking :P, even worse when she is stood next to you :(
She is currently unemployed and 'looking for a job' although all she wants to do is go out and party. She has recently moved back home after dumping her boyfriend...lets hope she wakes up and sees sense that they are better fish in the sea.

Chantelle is my step daughter and again I treat her as my own, I have seen her grow up since forever and that makes it more special. She is hard work sometimes and she has now seen the light and again she has told me that, she too, considers me as her dad *Eyes Weeping Now*

Chantelle posing for her facebook pics lol

Danielle is the 3rd eldest, being only 13 she sometimes acts 18...slow down girl. She loves mothering peoples babies, I am hoping this will scare her off wanting one, she does want to be a mid wife when she is older, at least she can give them back lol.

Danielle's prom photo

Kaine is the youngest of the 4 being 12, he is a PS3 geek and a BMX freak lol. He loves his video games and is also into his boxing, when he can be bothered to go. He stays awake past midnight most nights, except when its not a school night...oh no no no.

Kaine's prom photo

******UPDATE*****

Clark is still with Simone, although they are are like the worlds worst roller coaster, always up, down, on and off...some people just cant be helped. Clark is still boxing...although he has yet to win a match...he started of promising aswell...time will tell I suppose....only teasing ya kid...he has won several of his bouts and continues to do so to this day.

Photo Credit - Quickline.co.uk

Chantelle is a stay at home full time mum, she needs a kick up the arse to be motivated to do things lol, still trying to get her to goto college and do something when Jayden starts Nursery. But she is a stubborn git...but she is so lovely just can't help but laugh with her or at her lol. We have a great bond and I like it. Michelle said she doesn't see her as just a daughter but a best friend too....but when Chantelle and myself are together we wind Michelle up lol.


Danielle is currently studying at Hull College and also working part time at the same hotel as her mum, and doing the same job as her mum. She is seeking other jobs at present but job front is bleak. She is also learning to drive...get clear folks lol.

Kaine is now working full time as a landscape gardener, he originally attended an interview for an apprenticeship position, but they saw his previous work and offered him a full time position starting immediately. He is in an ongoing relationship with a girl called Chloe, think they have past the 10 month mark now.

Beginning

Well here I am putting my fingers to the keys, wondering what waffle will come from this lol.

As this is my 1st ever attempt at this I am not expecting miracles, but at the same time I am expecting something that will keep ones attention when reading this.

I suppose I should begin by explaining who I am and what I do, Well I am Paul "Hello", I am 36yrs of age. I was born in Kowloon, Hong Kong. My parents were in the Royal Airforce and they were stationed there.

I am currently married to 1 lovely lady called Michelle, whom is slightly older than myself, 43 to be exact. I always said I wouldn't go with a women who smokes and has kids...Michelle smoked and had 2 kids and I got with her...boy she had strong magnetism :)...or it was them lovely long pins that made an arse of themselves *Wolf Whistles*

Picture of Michelle below :)

Michelle and I got together in 1996 and it was always her pins in that uniform that attracted me to her, all them times she gave me a lift home I couldn't stop thinking about ways I could make a move on her, but never did for being shy lol

More info to follow...'The family'...so stay tuned :)